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A Look at the Challenges Sex Toy Startups Face After Launch

A Look at the Challenges Sex Toy Startups Face After Launch

Often when the topic of business startups comes up, the focus tends to lean toward tips and advice for the beginner phase — how to get your idea off the page and into reality. While that is of course an important step in any business journey, it certainly isn’t the finish line. In fact, it’s only the starting point. Turning your new business initiative into a long-term success requires navigating a unique set of challenges at each new stage. Unfortunately, the business world isn’t the kindest place for startups, even after they have already started up. This is doubly true with a sex toy startup.

Here are some of the most common challenges and hurdles that sex toy startups like ours have faced and will continue to face, and some strategies for overcoming them.

The most frustrating part is: as an industry, sex toy manufacturing is incredibly lucrative.

Insufficient Capacity to Meet Demand

If you are going to have a problem, this is a good one to have. Love Not War’s first year was actually incredibly successful. We were getting interest from markets across the world, large mainstream retailers wanted to stock our products, and demand in countries outside of the U.K. and the U.S. was expanding at an alarming rate. Growth was happening — but with it, the pressure to expand and evolve was also mounting. To meet the demand, we needed to start looking into setting up distribution centers in the U.S., EU, U.K. and the Far East. We also needed to ensure that we physically had enough stock to fulfill ever-increasing B2B orders.

Obviously this was all good news. Expansion is a healthy sign that a business is thriving. However the harsh reality of expansion is the constant need for more space, more effort, more time. Unfortunately, the systems we had set up at Love Not War for year one were insufficient. And of course, fixing this kind of problem requires the biggest “more” of all: more capital.

Funding, Funding, Funding

Identifying a gap in the market and establishing a viable solution can actually be done relatively cheaply. In terms of capital, that is the easy part. However, once you cross that threshold, start to build your product or service and see growth and expansion like we did, that is when you’ll find yourself in need of more funds.

The challenge here is finding investors or lenders for your startup. Did you know that only 0.5% of startups manage to raise a VC funding round? The sad reality is traditional lenders frequently aren’t interested in backing a startup. We as a company have faced repeated rejection based solely on our business being too new, and we’ve been advised to come back with three to five years of trading history. This may sound sensible in theory, but how is a startup meant to build said trading history without the funding to sustain the business in the first place? And that small pool of lenders willing to help startups end up offering interest rates of 20% or more — an unfair and unrealistic amount to begin with.

Further, like many others in the industry, we as a vibrator brand have frequently faced and struggled with the backward attitude of many lenders. Despite the sex toy industry’s size and popularity, investors are famously tentative about backing sex toy startups. So much so that pleasure brands find it difficult to open a business bank account, let alone gain access to lending facilities. This is primarily due to sex toy manufacturers getting lumped together with other adult businesses like porn companies and strip clubs, which face severe stigma.

Putting your startup on pause until you can secure the capital is rarely a good idea. Investors want to feel that the train is leaving with or without them. That's what makes it exciting to team up with you. Even potential investors who aren’t put off by the industry, or stuck in the backward "sex is taboo" mentality of the past, may still balk if your startup fails to demonstrate tangible progress. 

What options are out there?

While it can be painstaking to research every possible funding option for your company, that is the best way to navigate this process. Finding funding for your business is not a one-size-fits-all solution; your venture’s specific needs will determine your next move.

There is a new breed of lenders on the market, non-traditional banks that will lend to startups — but there is a catch. They tend only to lend against B2C sales. If you are a brand purely looking to fund your B2C stock, this could be a great option for you. However, if you are a company like Love Not War, predominantly looking to fund B2B stock, this may not be a viable option.

We also recently came across some government funding that is available to those who can prove that they have exhausted all other avenues. This might be a potential avenue to pursue if, like us, you’ve been tearing your hair out over the lack of options.

The most frustrating part is: as an industry, sex toy manufacturing is incredibly lucrative. The market is predicted to maintain its upward trajectory and achieve significant global growth, yet this is something most investors still fail to see. The mindset shift that we’ve seen amongst mainstream retailers such as Urban Outfitters, Sephora and Superdrug in respect to tapping the pleasure industry has not filtered down to lenders just yet. That being said, we live in hope that a change in perceptions will come in time.

Will Ranscombe is the CEO and co-founder of sustainable sex toy brand, Love Not War.

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