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7 Non-Sexual Ways to Turn Cam Members On

7 Non-Sexual Ways to Turn Cam Members On

When it comes to camming, getting naked and masturbating shouldn’t be the only goal.

Believe it or not, there are some pretty simple ways to turn yourself and your members on that don’t involve the obvious solutions.

When it comes to camming, getting naked and masturbating shouldn’t be the only goal.

So, without further ado, here are seven methods for making viewers crave you in a non-sexual way — try them in your next cam show and you will see!

1. “Thank you” is expected for every tip you receive. But saying ”I like you,” makes the member feel like he’s with his best friend and you enjoy his presence in the room. Saying ”I love you” might send out the wrong signals, but liking someone and hearing that someone likes you and appreciates you is a good feeling to get.

2. Smile when the member enters the room and mention his screen name. This makes him feel like you’re happy to see him and missed your time apart, whether short or long. So, keep remembering your best members by name.

3. Offer private compliments just before a member leaves your room, whether it’s a positive comment on their attire after a cam-to-cam show or recognition of their witty remarks. It makes them feel confident about their presence in the room. Opinions matter in relationships, so thank them for their time, generosity and making your day a little better.

4. Praise a member in public chat, to show you’re not afraid to demonstrate how much you appreciate them in front of other members (or those dastardly freeloaders).

5. Get to know your members’ favorite songs and play them randomly, dedicating it to them when they’re online in the chatroom. It makes it clear you’re going the extra mile to show how much you care.

6. As for a member’s favorite sports team, make an effort to order some sports gear to wear online during the season. They’ll love to see you supporting their team. No matter what the results are for the team, you’ll always win!

7. Make your member a special video or photo. You can even add it to your cam room’s shop and make them purchase it fast before you take it down so only they see it. For instance, on Stripchat, you can sell your content directly in your own cam room and you can also start your own fan club where members can subscribe monthly to get content from you. It’s definitely a great way to earn some extra cash while you sleep.

All of these acts are playfully seductive. It is important to take the time to give each member what they want before getting naked. It will give you more space and energy to focus on the sex when it happens, with positive energy and passion.

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