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Make It a Very Kinky XXXMas for Your Fans

Make It a Very Kinky XXXMas for Your Fans

Christmas is right around the corner, offering cam models the perfect excuse to throw a special show that will attract new users — and of course, extra holiday income. After all, whether you personally celebrate or not, who doesn’t like more spending cash? Some cam platforms even have special Christmas celebrations, with streaming events that drive traffic for models seeking greater exposure or additional token opportunities.

The best part is that you don’t even have to rack your brains trying to come up with Christmas-themed ideas for your shows. Just let fetishes do the work! Allow me to explain. Do you know Rule 34? It’s a commonly accepted “rule” stipulating that if something exists, there is a porn version of it.

Santa is a dominant figure, someone who decides whether you get a treat or you get punished. In other words, Santa is the ultimate sugar daddy.

I say we expand on that concept and coin Rule 35: If it exists, somebody somewhere definitely has a fetish for it. This helps our case too, because believe it or not, there are people with Christmas-y kinks out there, and those are the potential customers to whom you should cater in your holiday shows.

Here are a few Christmas-related fetishes that you can feature in your XXXmas shows, to help you make some bank for the holidays.

Santaphilia

Yes, that’s exactly what it sounds like: a Santa fetish. But this kink has many sides to it and the reasons why people might feel aroused by Santa vary.

Santa is a dominant figure, someone who decides whether you get a treat or you get punished. In other words, Santa is the ultimate sugar daddy. This can of course tap into the dom/sub fantasy; maybe it’s not so bad to be on Santa’s naughty list after all. On the other hand, Santa is also a beloved childhood figure, so it shouldn’t come as a surprise if some people who long for a paternal figure in bed find themselves fantasizing about Santa.

Moreover, we can’t deny the sexy role-play aspect of sitting on someone’s lap and telling them exactly what you want. And let’s not forget that Santa comes when you’re asleep, sneaking into your house and leaving you gifts — feel free to interpret that any way you want.

If you want to play into this fetish for your shows, you can dress up as Santa, or the customer can, if that’s what they dig. Whoever plays Santa can be dominant, in charge of punishing the other person if they’ve been naughty. Or they can also be a caring figure, rewarding the other party for being good. The Santaphilic fetish can encompass many different forms of role-play. If you’re a cam girl with a Santaphilic user, you could be Santa’s little helper, if you know what I mean.

What About Mrs. Claus and the Elves?

If Santa can be an authoritative daddy figure to submit to, then so can Mrs. Claus. How about playing Santa’s wife and harnessing that dom energy? Or she can also be submissive to dominant Santa. But Christmas fetishes don’t just end with Mr. and Mrs. Claus; elves can also have a kinky side, for example. You can even use realistic-looking prosthetics to act out these Christmas-y fantasies. Invite viewers to see just what sexy toys you’re planning to use in Santa’s workshop. If they vibrate, all the better.

XXXMas Gifts Appeal to Findom Fetish

Some people get off on giving money and gifts to people they admire or like. This is known as findom, short for financial domination, and it’s considered to fall under the BDSM umbrella, since it is a variation on the submissive/dominant relationship dynamic. Everybody knows that Christmas is the season of presents, making it the perfect moment to put your wish list out there so that findom fetishists and your other admirers can spoil you. Most cam sites allow Amazon wish lists, so users can pay for your chosen items directly on the site. Another option would be setting an epic goal token-wise so that your top fans can get you something extra special for Christmas.

No matter how you decide to tap into a camming winter wonderland, you can’t go wrong with exploring the kinky side of Christmas fetishes. Who knew such a jovial and religious holiday could have such seductive possibilities?

Eva is an industry insider who helps performers make money on their own terms. When she’s not writing a blog post, poking around online or networking, she is practicing yoga or doing Netflix marathons. Contact her at eva@stripchat.com.

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