Let's have some real talk about a hotly contested topic and one of the biggest mysteries of women: squirting.
Is squirting the same thing as female ejaculation? Or is it just a wacky old myth like unicorns and centaurs? Squirting is not a legend, nor a fable; it is as real as the fact that it's leading the ranking of most popular searches on adult sites, and that's exactly why it needs some light shed on it.
Raise your hand if you're a cam model or adult performer looking to enter the sought-after "squirting" category, but have never succeeded in conjuring that puzzling liquid up. If your hand is not up yet, consider that "squirting" is one of the popular categories among Stripchat users; hence, knowing how to perform it will improve your exposure!
You could scour the internet for answers, only to soon realize that there is no clear-cut conclusion and just a lack of consistency across different sources. If there’s little to no investigation on women’s sexual health, you can figure that there are pretty much zero studies on why squirting happens and even on what the actual substance is. But we’ll leave research to science. The point here is that squirting is indisputably sexy and knowing how to perform it on your shows will boost your savings account.
The first thing you need to know is that all women have the physical ability to squirt, and making it happen requires merely hitting the right buttons. In fact, you might be unconsciously sabotaging your own capacity to squirt. It's an intense, almost overwhelming feeling, and in order to reach it, you have to push through what feels like an urge to urinate. This is often the final hurdle that most women fail to cross, mistaking the sensation for the need to pee, and thus missing out on the magic.
Learning how to squirt is certainly tricky, though doable if you know what steps to follow, and luckily I've got just the thing. Here's the lowdown on how to squirt.
Step 1: Relax
It doesn't matter if you're trying to squirt, meditate or write a novel. Relaxing is key. You must get rid of all the tension in your body and also in your mind. Sexual activity is not merely physical; it is mental. Body and mind are connected when it comes to orgasm or, in this case, squirting. You need to focus on your body and steer your thoughts a certain way to get there, so make sure that you make yourself comfortable and stress-free before you start.
Step 2: Find Your G-Spot
The G-spot accounts for 80% of your squirting success. Refresher course: it's an area on the front wall of the vagina (located about 0.5 to 2 inches from the entrance) and it feels like a spongy, raised ridge. Sit on the floor, knees bent. Insert a finger into your vagina and curl it up towards the belly button until you find it.
Step 3: Get Aroused and Stimulate Your G-Spot
The G-spot swells when aroused, so your best bet is to work on it when you’re already aroused from clitoral stimulation. Foreplay is essential to build yourself up to squirting. Ideally, you should spend about 20 minutes getting yourself worked up. Then, it’s time to slowly stimulate your G-spot, but it’s important to know how to touch it right. Using a come-hither finger motion with one or two fingers can do the trick. Pro tip: using a wand toy will allow you to explore further back than you can with a finger alone. There are even toys designed for G-spot access.
Your G-spot will be filled with blood and therefore become larger as it gets stimulated. Parts of it could feel sore, so stimulate gently. Listen to your body and adapt accordingly. Remember that you are on a journey to pleasure. As you stimulate your G-spot, the pressure will build. Keep doing what you are doing until you feel like releasing it, and when you feel you're about to squirt, let go and embrace what's about to happen.
Step 4: Keep Experimenting!
We don’t have a universal guide to squirting available yet, so there is not one true method to make you squirt. Every woman is different, so experimenting is essential to find out what works best for you. It takes time to learn about your body, what feels right and what brings you closer to squirting.
You must take the time for self-exploration; yes, your homework is to masturbate and dive into all your kinks and fantasies. Could be worse!
The two golden rules on squirting are being patient and having no expectations. This is not a race for performance, so allow yourself plenty of time and try not to focus on making a huge fountain out of your vagina. Some women shoot out a lot of liquid while others just a few drops. Each body is different. The important thing is not how big a puddle you make, but rather feeling every sensation and enjoying the ride.
Now, you know what to do. Practice until you become a squirt master and then share this new skill with your fans!
Eva is a passionate insider with industry experience whose mission is to pave the way for performers to make money on their own terms. When she’s not writing a blog post, poking around online or networking, she is practicing yoga or doing Netflix marathons. She’s addicted to coffee, which is what keeps her going through the day. Contact her at eva@stripchat.com.
