The modern history of vibrators is stereotypically female. If you know vibrators, both clitoral and penetrative, the first ones that come to mind are bright pink and phallic. Sure, that may work for some, but what about those who aren’t into that? As the world begins to be more accepting and accommodating to trans and non-binary people, so should vibrators and the companies that make them.
Despite what we’re led to believe, vibrators don’t just work for people with a clitoris. It’s a great device for those of us with one, but for those with a penis, most vibrators can be just as effective.
Despite what we’re led to believe, vibrators don’t just work for people with a clitoris.
Meet the frenulum: the part just below the penis head. If you have one, you probably already know that that’s the most sensitive part of your genitalia. Most of us know the vibrating cock ring, which should be every cis-hetero couple’s favorite toy for both solo and couple play. The cock ring helps him last longer, and the vibrator helps her and him get off.
Some other vibes to consider for male genitalia are the suction ones. Do you love having your balls sucked? Then the suction vibes were made for you. Created for killer clitoris orgasms, their suction heads can be used for nipples and balls as well. Most offer varying levels of suction patterns and with a targeted nozzle, it’s sure to get nearly anyone off.
With a re-education on how vibrators can be used, the next move is a redesign. Luckily, a lot of brands are moving away from the bright pinks and penis designs — even high-end vibe companies like Lelo have made steps to offer something for everyone.
Sure, they still have their vibes separated into “male” and “female” but there is a section for “Femme & Homme” that offers a collection that can be used for both. Other companies that have moved towards gender-neutral design include Unbound and Dame (who offer gender-neutral colors as well as hire trans and non-binary models), and Wildflower Sex (who gleefully introduced a vibe for literally everybody).
For those who are curious about expanding their sex-toy repertoire with the future of vibes, why not experiment with one of the latest toy innovations. Unbound’s Bender is described as a G-spot vibrator that uniquely bends in all the right ways. Use it internally or externally; it doesn’t matter as long as you clean it afterward. Dame Products’ Fin is a modern person’s vibrating cock ring that is perfect for anyone no matter their genitalia. The loop at the end is detachable, encouraging both solo and couple play. The b-Vibe Novice is for those looking for vibrating anal play. With innovative design and a brand mission of education, users are guaranteed a safe and fun experience.
Maddie Allard is the marketing manager at Emojibator.
