The book was written to be a hands-on tool for both men and women about the raw details of "Sex Energetics," together with a five-step process ("The Five T's") of "performing a completely focused and very thorough oral sex experience that will leave your lover in a state that can only be described as blown away and bewildered."
Ashley reportedly fell into her career as a counselor and author when friends and exes said, "Since you're so great at giving a blowjob, then share your blowjob secrets with us, and write about it!"
After years of extensive research both at the library and "in the field," Ashley is now introducing to the world her eBook. With proven results as an exclusive Rapid Results Relationship Sexpert to the super shy but ultra intrigued, Ashley uses her collective knowledge of how sexual energy is ordered and the differences between men's sexual energy rhythms and women's sexual energy rhythms in a forum where couples feel comfortable opening up about their issues.
"After an initial period of excitement, intimacy awareness tends to break down and many couples experience feelings of 'not being on the same page,'" Ashley said. "I find that a kind of re-introduction is vital in order to create truly satisfying sensual encounters."
Because Ashley is not a clinical doctor, couples reportedly do not feel the claustrophobic pressure of being judged in the environment of a therapist's office, which to some can be quite intimidating. Instead, Ashley is more like the uninhibited, but very intuitive friend that tags along for dinner divulging her latest sexual innovations, engaging everyone at the table to share their feelings and reactions to their own intimate moments.
It was these situations with friends — both men and women — who felt comfortable enough to reach out and ask for her blowjob and sex secrets in hopes of heating things up in the bedroom, that led Ashley to realize that she may be on to something.
"Realizing that I had become the Blowjob Queen, I decided to finally take my friends and clients advice and get it down on paper," Ashley said. "The tipping point was the number of thank you notes and emails I had received applauding the practicality of my advice.
"It was important for me to share my knowledge," she added, "but I wanted to present an integrated view of sexual intimacy that respected the perspectives of both genders."
The Best Blowjob in Five Steps: The Art and Science of Mind-blowing Fellatio" is available for $33.96 at www.bestblowjobinfivesteps.com.