TooTimid.com Survey Says 54% of Women Hide Sex Toys

AMHERST, N.H. — Online retailer TooTimid.com, surveyed more than 1,000 females to discover that more than 54 percent of women hide sex toys from their partner.

“He’s not at all comfortable about them, he’d be embarrassed. I take great pains to make sure this does not happen,” Miranda Brie, a survey taker, said. 

For more than 17 years, TooTimid.com has been a resource for people that want to enhance their intimate pleasure.

“What intimidates me most is that even though we’ve been together for six years coming up, I still get embarrassed when we do certain things,” said Jossie Hope, a customer.

According to the survey, 1,413 women, 767 women are hiding them from their partner.

“He knew I had them but didn't want to know that I used them and there was no way he would have used them with me,” Meridith Heilm, another survey taker, said.  

Customer Christy Bree reported used to hide her sex toys, “But now I have a better partner,” she stated. “With my ex, I hid a very simple basic vibrator. It wasn’t even phallic in shape, and I only used it to vibe my clit. But I was anxious about sharing it with him. Then he found it and immediately wanted me to get rid of it because it was ‘bigger’ than him.”

“I know a lot of people can feel insecure when toys are brought into the picture, they feel like they aren’t good enough to please their partner,” Hope said.

TooTimid offers the following advice to people that are thinking of having the conversation with their partner: “it’s with utmost importance that women explain the toy does not, and could not ever replace the real feel of the person you love. Even though there might be a toy involved, it’s still your partner delivering the pleasure! It’s all about having good communication.”

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