trends

Time in a Bottle: Retention, Rebills and Rejoins

If you ask a salesman what the best product is to sell to make a profit, you might hear many things, ranging from real estate to insurance to just about any big-ticket item you can imagine. And while they might disagree on some of the specifics, one answer that could be frequently heard from the more experienced merchant is "consumables."

Put simply, consumables are items that the purchaser consumes, or "uses up." Examples for our purposes would include everything from food to gasoline, toilet paper to trash bags — any item that by its nature "forces" the consumer to become a repeat customer.

While some might opine that items like automobiles are consumable, I want to focus on smaller-ticket items that require less expense, thought and effort and whose purchases occur much more frequently — like buying a new pair of socks because there's a hole in your old pair.

In this example, for the merchant that satisfactorily provides quality socks conveniently and at competitive prices, using as simplified a purchase and delivery process as possible, a growing base of repeat customers almost is assured. Of course, you can take that last statement and substitute the word "socks" with the name of just about any consumable item, and have the basic recipe for successful sales.

"But what about an adult connection?" you might ask. "Is there an adult item that is consumable, in demand and readily monetized online — besides condoms and lube?"

Absolutely, and it's the most precious commodity in the world: time.

Although many operators lament the declining popularity of paysite subscription sales, for those legitimate operators not into billing games and overly aggressive marketing, it is the recurring membership subscription fees that typically account for the lion's share of the paysite's profits. In other words, it's not the trial membership or first month's sale that makes a site its money; it's the rebills accumulating over time that add punch to the bottom line.

Key to earning these rebills, of course, is the concept of customer satisfaction — and in adult, that can take on a very literal meaning. The main point here is that if the customer doesn't find enough value in your site, he or she will cancel the membership quickly, rather than come back again and again for more — paying all the while for the privilege.

Or so it would seem on the surface.

One of the realities of recurring subscriptions is that customer procrastination more often than not is the real reason for the rebill. For example, a surfer buys a one-week trial membership to a paysite that converts to a monthly recurring membership unless he cancels within the allotted time. Of course, he forgets to cancel, or never understood that he had to cancel and simply thought the trial was self-canceling. Whatever the reason, he's now a regular member — regardless of whether he ever revisits your website. The bill comes in the mail, and he means to call and question the charge. But once again, too much to do and not enough time to do it takes its toll, and he has recurred another month — the bill for that latest transaction sufficiently motivating him to cancel his subscription, roughly two-and-a-half months after first signing up.

Ever hear that number before? It's often quoted as "the average member-retention rate" — and now you know why. And if you can keep members recurring for longer than that average, then you're doing something right.

But even if you do everything right, it still may not be enough.

Increasingly, more experienced, cost-conscious members (especially those who are not overly impressed with the frequency of your site's updates) are opting to cancel their membership after downloading all of your content — and then coming back perhaps months, even years, later to consider rejoining to download all your updates. Someone who really likes your content but not your monthly fees might come back to repeat this process over and over again.

The trick is to make a website that is worth rejoining for the member and profitable enough for you to bother with.

And that's where the focus of all this is going: In days past, it was good enough to build a site that would get a member to join; then it became all about getting him to stay. Now it's about leaving him with such a good impression that he's willing to go through the signup process all over again — and to do so fully knowing what you have to offer.

Attaining that level of desirability will become ever more important as adult consumers' porn purchasing habits continue to evolve, but for companies built on fat recurring fees, there's little choice other than to try to establish a compelling addiction to their content.

This isn't simply about increasing adult paysite subscription sales, either, as these basic principles apply to any time-based transactions, such as video-on-demand and live audio/video chat services — any business model in which time is a consumable quantity.

The bottom line is that for those running paysites, money matters, whether it comes in the form of joins, rebills, rejoins — or yes, even upsells and cross-sales.

The common denominator to all is them being a satisfied customer who believes in your offer and also believes that your product reflects your offer — or in other words, the customer believes that your members area delivers what your tour promises.

Let's work to make that belief a reality.

Related:  

Copyright © 2026 Adnet Media. All Rights Reserved. XBIZ is a trademark of Adnet Media.
Reproduction in whole or in part in any form or medium without express written permission is prohibited.

More Articles

opinion

Why E-Payment Diversification Matters for Merchant Stability

Match payment methods to your customers. Look at where your customers are located, how they prefer to pay and which products they purchase. A business with significant European traffic may benefit from SEPA or Pay by Bank, while a subscription-based business may prioritize ACH or cryptocurrency. Add the payment methods your customers are most likely to use, as not every option is available.

Jonathan Corona ·
trends

AI at Work: The Tools and Practices Powering Creativity, Commerce and Compliance

For years, artificial intelligence felt like the plot of a science-fiction movie. Pop culture gave us Skynet from “The Terminator,” the replicants of “Blade Runner” and countless visions of machines replacing human creativity altogether. AI was cast as either humanity's next great breakthrough or the beginning of a dystopian future.

Jackie Backman ·
opinion

Key Questions Online Merchants Should Know About PCI Compliance

Choosing a payment provider involves more than comparing features and pricing. It's also about trusting that your customers' payment information is being handled securely. Every August, Segpay is recertified as a Level 1 PCI-compliant service provider, a milestone the company has achieved for the past 20 years. Having helped write Segpay's original PCI policy documents more than two decades ago, I've seen firsthand how PCI compliance has evolved.

Cathy Beardsley ·
profile

New Moon Network's Savannah Sly on Turning Lived Experience Into Advocacy

Savannah Sly is the first to admit she didn't always understand sex work. At 18, she was an art student in Boston, working part-time at a box office and, as she puts it, "broke as a joke." While looking for ways to make ends meet, she often found herself browsing Craigslist's adult ads, intrigued by the women advertising their services.

Jackie Backman ·
opinion

How to Safeguard Your Website Against CIPA Claims

There is a new wave of lawsuits targeting online businesses, including adult websites. These suits involve the California Invasion of Privacy Act (CIPA), and they are becoming increasingly prevalent. In fact, three different clients of my law firm were recently served or threatened with CIPA lawsuits — all in the same week.

Nick Zargarpour ·
trends

How Clear Talent Contracts Can Save Time and Money

The adult industry has always been defined by its ability to evolve. It embraced online distribution before much of mainstream entertainment did, pioneered subscription-based business models, and continues to evolve in areas ranging from streaming to AI.

Corey Silverstein ·
profile

Jerkmate's Lili L. on Dropping Beats to Fuel Creator Success

Long before joining the Jerkmate team as a marketing strategist, Lili L. was the kind of person who always felt like she needed a new challenge.

Women In Adult ·
opinion

What Mastercard's Specialty Fee Overhaul Means for Merchants

For business owners in the adult and specialty spaces, the rules have always been written in someone else’s office. The latest Mastercard changes are no exception, though there are practical ways merchants can begin preparing now.

Jonathan Corona ·
opinion

What to Know About Content Restrictions Across Global Markets

Throughout 2025, age verification remained a major focus as merchants worked to meet the requirements of 26 U.S. states, country-specific regulations in France, the UK, and Italy, and evolving guidance from the European Commission.

Cathy Beardsley ·
opinion

Key Strategies for Building an Effective Website Compliance Program

For adult website operators, compliance can no longer live in a folder that only opens when a bank, regulator, attorney, or payment processor starts asking questions.

Corey D. Silverstein ·
Show More