educational

Relational Advertising Better Targets Viewers

When the topic of “relational advertising” is brought up, it’s usually in the context of its standard meaning; where relationship building is used to make brand loyalty more of a factor than price is, in the prospect’s purchasing decision. There is another aspect to the phrase, however, which describes how specific ads can target specific content or viewers in order to improve throughput and profitability.

The subtleties of this approach were most evident to this author on a recent visit to YouTube, where we listened to music videos playing in one Google Chrome browser tab, while we read lens reviews at the B&H photo/video website in another tab.

It’s ultimately about making it as easy as possible for users to find what they want.

It is something I have done many times before, but this time, there was a new twist:

When we switched tabs to search for a new song to play on YouTube, two ads appeared from B&H alongside my music choices; showcasing the two obscure lenses we was eyeing on the B&H site in the other tab — specialty items that would not be displayed to general consumers, or even general photography fans — making the only plausible reason being that Google is matching surfing to ad viewing in real time, so precisely that we cannot help but be impressed by this damn good marketing, based on live user behavior integration.

This isn’t a simple “Other buyers of A were also interested in B,” which Amazon had popularized and the rest of the online marketing world followed — but a more predictive approach that made me question just how far and wide my surfing habits are being shared — and with whom.

But rather than privacy issues, let’s look at the porn potential: Consider the adult web surfing patterns of many consumers, this author included, where a visit to a TGP or MGP (free porn sites notorious for “skimming” visitors off to unintended destinations) may be improved by thwarting these redirects, by opening the gallery links in a new tab and then manually skimming the redirect and affiliate code from the link; so that only the intended pages are loaded.

Could the content of one of these pages be used to influence the content of another?

One interesting application would be for a tube site to tie performers in a video to ads promoting the performer’s official paysite as well as upcoming live cam appearances — with an exit popup offering a discount coupon for the cam show. Video-on-demand ads for full length movies featuring these stars could also be presented and these ads can also be shown on successive pages as well — so a visitor viewing Suzy on one page would also find a link back to her when he’s moved on to Sally.

These processes automate and refine what is otherwise accomplished via “tagging,” but it’s ultimately about making it as easy as possible for users to find what they want.

Now we are wondering if the UPS business services ads that I’m seeing next to an article that we just finished reading are there because I earlier visited the UPS site to track an order — while those ads have a much higher likelihood of being coincidental than do the B&H ads in my previous example, I have to think that it’s more than just a random chance.

Perhaps you can do the same with your own sites and offers, to deliver more targeted advertising to your site’s visitors — while delivering more revenue to your bank account.

Related:  

Copyright © 2025 Adnet Media. All Rights Reserved. XBIZ is a trademark of Adnet Media.
Reproduction in whole or in part in any form or medium without express written permission is prohibited.

More Articles

opinion

WIA Profile: Lainie Speiser

With her fiery red hair and a laugh that practically hugs you, Lainie Speiser is impossible to miss. Having repped some of adult’s biggest stars during her 30-plus years in the business, the veteran publicist is also a treasure trove of tales dating back to the days when print was king and social media not even a glimmer in the industry’s eye.

Women in Adult ·
opinion

Fighting Back Against AI-Fueled Fake Takedown Notices

The digital landscape is increasingly being shaped by artificial intelligence, and while AI offers immense potential, it’s also being weaponized. One disturbing trend that directly impacts adult businesses is AI-powered “DMCA takedown services” generating a flood of fraudulent Digital Millennium Copyright Act (DMCA) notices.

Corey D. Silverstein ·
opinion

Building Seamless Checkout Flows for High-Risk Merchants

For high-risk merchants such as adult businesses, crypto payments are no longer just a backup plan — they’re fast becoming a first choice. More and more businesses are embracing Bitcoin and other digital currencies for consumer transactions.

Jonathan Corona ·
opinion

What the New SCOTUS Ruling Means for AV Laws and Free Speech

On June 27, 2025, the United States Supreme Court handed down its landmark decision in Free Speech Coalition v. Paxton, upholding Texas’ age verification law in the face of a constitutional challenge and setting a new precedent that bolsters similar laws around the country.

Lawrence G. Walters ·
opinion

What You Need to Know Before Relocating Your Adult Business Abroad

Over the last several months, a noticeable trend has emerged: several of our U.S.-based merchants have decided to “pick up shop” and relocate to European countries. On the surface, this sounds idyllic. I imagine some of my favorite clients sipping coffee or wine at sidewalk cafés, embracing a slower pace of life.

Cathy Beardsley ·
profile

WIA Profile: Salima

When Salima first entered the adult space in her mid-20s, becoming a power player wasn’t even on her radar. She was simply looking to learn. Over the years, however, her instinct for strategy, trust in her teams and commitment to creator-first innovation led her from the trade show floor to the executive suite.

Women in Adult ·
opinion

How the Interstate Obscenity Definition Act Could Impact Adult Businesses

Congress is considering a bill that would change the well-settled definition of obscenity and create extensive new risks for the adult industry. The Interstate Obscenity Definition Act, introduced by Sen. Mike Lee, makes a mockery of the First Amendment and should be roundly rejected.

Lawrence G. Walters ·
opinion

What US Sites Need to Know About UK's Online Safety Act

In a high-risk space like the adult industry, overlooking or ignoring ever-changing rules and regulations can cost you dearly. In the United Kingdom, significant change has now arrived in the form of the Online Safety Act — and failure to comply with its requirements could cost merchants millions of dollars in fines.

Cathy Beardsley ·
opinion

Understanding the MATCH List and How to Avoid Getting Blacklisted

Business is booming, sales are steady and your customer base is growing. Everything seems to be running smoothly — until suddenly, Stripe pulls the plug. With one cold, automated email, your payment processing is shut down. No warning, no explanation.

Jonathan Corona ·
profile

WIA Profile: Leah Koons

If you’ve been to an industry event lately, odds are you’ve heard Leah Koons even before you’ve seen her. As Fansly’s director of marketing, Koons helps steer one of the fastest-growing creator platforms on the web.

Women in Adult ·
Show More