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Why Do Men Pay for Escorts?

Why Do Men Pay for Escorts?

September 30, 2006
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" your date shows up at your door 30 minutes later, it almost sounds too perfect "

The first image that comes to my mind when I hear the word Escort is an athletic woman with jet-black hair, sparkling brown eyes, olive tan, an incredible behind, a smile to die for and four-inch black pump heels – a true Latina beauty. But that’s enough about me. So why is it that so many men contact women over the Internet via on-line adult directories and flip through local newspaper adult entertainment pages searching for the perfect hot n’ sexy date? Most men say they are lonely and would appreciate the company of a beautiful woman for just an hour or two to fill the void.

Many men say that they pay for sex because it “is easy to get exactly what you want.” You don’t have to worry about any surprises. When you have the option of setting up a date by viewing a picture of your dream girl, reading her description and simply making a telephone call (or sending an email) and your date shows up at your door 30 minutes later, it almost sounds too perfect.

Other men that I have interviewed make a point to emphasize that paying for sex via calling upon an escort is ideal because there is “no emotional attachment with the other person.” You don’t have to sit down at a dinner table (unless you want to) and listen to your date go on and on about all of the generally boring stories about their life and what ails them. On the other hand, your date will readily listen to you ramble on about your personal problems as long as you are on the clock.

Do men enjoy watching porn movies? Try this, ask 100 men if they have ever watched an adult movie and if they enjoy doing so. The overwhelming response to your question will undeniably be a YES. Some lucky guys do find a partner that enjoys porn just as much if not more than he does. Most men will agree that their girlfriend or wife does not watch porn however this may not be the case for everyone you speak to. This is another reason some men pay for sex, they fantasize about ‘the porn-star experience’. Deep down inside the majority of men yearn for that wild, kinky, sloppy, crazy… you know what I mean. Paying a few hundred bucks for mind blowing latex-fueled sex doesn’t sound like too bad of an investment if your regular (sex) life is boring. Variety and spice may be a good thing.

Not many men will admit they are afraid of rejection. Well guess what, we are. The vast majority of men would rather not be turned down after asking a girl out on a date or to a movie. It’s just a daunting thing. There are rarely turn down’s when arranging a date with an escort unless she is all booked or under the weather. Tomorrow is another day and your luck ought to improve with another telephone call.

So you have just ended your two or four hour date with the woman of your dreams and she really seemed to care about you. Now she’s gone and guess what, you’re lonely again. Was it worth it? Only you will truly know.

Dave Myers has interviewed 1000’s of Independent Escorts and countless owners of Escort Agencies and related Adult Entertainment providers over the past 25 years.


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